The Mad Housewifes Diary

Has it been a week?

2004-12-12T11:12:00.000-05:00

Wow..did not realize it had been a week since posting...of course it is not like I have a huge fan base anyways....
Lets see...*E* and me had our lunch on Tuesday and had our usual snorting side ripping good time...we will soon be known as the scarey ladies in the back booth...we talked about everything from men to piercings to the idiot things our kids have did....the best therapy in the world too.
I had mentioned I wanted a white Christmas tree this year..so *M* the girl that works with my middle son got me one for my present..Big Sexy is not all that thrilled...and I think he is going to put the big tree up on the sunporch today too..we really need to get our decorating done..we have very little done and we are supposed to be having a Christmas party/get together on the 18th. Guess we need to light a fire sometime today.
I got some shopping done yesterday, not all by a long shot but at least a fair start. Money is tight this year so things are getting dumbed down right smart. But it will still be nice I imagine. We are not sure if we will have Christmas on the 25th or not. If Big Sexy can work he will. The money for that day is around 450 or more...not shabby. Every year he has tried to do that so we are hoping this year too...this way also we can have Christmas after the sales start...not too dumb of a idea.
Went to Richmond on Friday to Childrens to get middle sons leg cast off..I had broke his femur somewhere along the line either changing a diaper or rolling him..no exact idea how but it happened. Had been waiting on it to finally happen anyway. We drove down Monument and looked at the houses. There is some gorgeous houses there...I have a big huge house fetish...and double it if they are older houses.
Went also yesterday to see Daddy in the nursing home...he is happy there. Took him a few things and his watch that needed a battery. I hate I had to put him there but he was too hard for me to take care of anymore...but I did it for 8 years...so I did try.
Well another Sunday but at least Big Sexy is off tonite. That will be a huge help. I love it when he is home...
Until later...to all a Good Night.

Sunday Blahs

2004-12-06T01:06:00.000-05:00

I survived another Sunday. I hate Sundays. They are some of the longest days of the month for me. At 4:30 this morning number 3 son was dancing, yes dancing in the moonlight that was coming thru his window. He has Autism and the Moon is his best friend. E is Pagan and she said that he must know something we don't know. It was so pure to watch this. Here he is dancing around and around in his moonlight...smiling like he had invented the moon. When Big Sexy come in though at 8 we all laid back down and took a little 2 hour nap or he would have been a bear all day.
Talked to E today on line a few minutes. She got her tree up today. I think we are planning on doing ours tomorrow, or at least getting it out of the attic. We have so many decorations now after 2o years and then I inheriated my Mothers so we have enough to do 3 trees and more plates/cups/glasses/mugs with a Christmas theme then we need. Yet I can't bear to part with a lot of it.
So another boring day but not as cold...but rain tomorrow so a rainy Monday is on its way. I guess nothing else to report this day.

Cold long Saturday...BRRR

2004-12-04T20:06:00.000-05:00

Boy has it been cold here the last few days in the hills and hollers of Virginia....The wind has been blowing and it has been down right chilly here. Has been a long Saturday mainly wasted in part. I stayed up way to late last nite and then went back to bed when the girls got here to take care of the boys...One high point, the local Ruriations were haveing a benefit dinner so you could get spaghetti and salad rolls and dessert for 5 bucks..Not bad...And being about 3 minutes down the road made it even sweeter.
Big Sexy is working his 3 12's which means he is asleep or at work...So that sucks...And he is sick to boot which makes him a bigger bear to deal with. Plus adding in the cold and he is the best humor...
I want to get into the Christmas spirit but it seems to be seriously lacking this year. We don't have the tree up or anything and making no motions heading that way either. I was thinking today about the Christmas trees of my past. Daddy always went out and cut down these Charlie Brown trees...Spindly pines...And looking back now at pictures they were lovely...You could see every single decoration. Kinda like the fake stick trees that are becoming popular all of a sudden. I wanted a white tree this year...But I will hold out to try to get one on clearance after Christmas.
Well has this not been the most boring blog entry yet...ughh..I may be back later with better ideas...If my brain is not froze.

Coffee, a friend and a diner

2004-12-03T22:05:00.000-05:00

As you may have read in my friends linked blog we escaped the other day to the local diner. Since we both smoke in this PC world our places of coffee and chat are limited. Both E and me have worked in this diner...I have marked up the most years..I think I figured it up one time and it was around 14 years total I worked there...mainly as cook. In our little town it is also gossip central...if you want something to be spread, go there tell a waitress and then just sit back. It will get around just fine. Call it the drums of the jungle if you will. So we sit there for I would say over 3 and a half hours acting like total fools talking about everything. Taking notes and answering each others questions on the lifestyle and yes I must say making more then one poke or two at the men that sometimes troll the sites...now don't get me wrong, a nice single man is really nice thing to have around...but I love the men who say *Hey have you seen my pic?* and you go to the profile and you see 3 or 4 dick pictures...I mean please...we know what that looks like more or less...the upper part is more important so we can make sure we are not talking to the missing link...speaking of E and me have seen the missing link...we honestly have...and I fear we laughed wayyyyyyy to much over that one~! WE love the socials...those are the parties we go to with other like minded clubs, think of a really sexy Moose lodge...E and me have been known to get just a little tipsy or so...and since she tends bar...lets just say more so...E and me have known each other a long time..I am I think 10 years older then her..but we get along great...we both had screwed up lives but we made it. We both like to laugh, and can laugh at ourselves as freely as we laugh at others..so it all works out in the end. She is bi, and I am bi-curious..we are friends first...but who knows like she says..later on if the planets are aligned right and everything flows together...we have time..if nothing else that is one thing we have enough of....until next time...and I have to do better...she is kicking my butt in blog world~!!!

Another first

2004-11-29T10:58:00.000-05:00

I have never did a Blog. I have over the years kept various diarys of course, a day by day blow of common things. Did it snow or rain..sunny or cloudy...did I shop today...did I list ebay today....just a small paper trail to prove one day I did exist. I have wrote on a few web sites...poetry is my game. I come from quite a lineage of mad people. Our madness is sometimes a legend to some in our town. A story or two still lives on thru generations. And to me that is the power the strength the light of life. Without some madness there is no spark, no wild thoughts or backwoods schemes. You are forgotton as quietly as you were made. And a mad person, well they leave behind the thoughts of their lives. And the adventures of their souls.
So here I sit. Married almost 21 years to the same man, our first marriage for both..married after little more then 50 days. Did I love him when we married...no I doubt I really did. But I think that is the secret. To really really like someone, to have the feeling you are their best friend..then to that love comes. And when it hits you it is a rush of pureness. That is the time when you know you would die for this person. And die without this person.
Allright I Know, I said SEX and I assume I need to get back to the main reason you stepped into my blog.
For all our years sex has been good, great and the light fantastic. Not at first, but after all those years your man knows every single place on your body that drives you mad. There is something to be said about the sameness of the same. A lick or a bite somewhere can set you off to the edge of death. I can't remember who calls the orgasm the *little death* the French maybe? But oh how true it can be. The withholding of the lifes air, as the body takes over with no heedless mind to the brain. Yes the little death. The brain loses its control...just as in real death.
About a year ago or so we became swingers. Yes the Oprah show has brought more then one of us out of the shadows. I have not been out really...but on certain message boards of family chatter and coupon savings I have found a board or two of sex and housewives. I have outed myself to them. A lot have come forward wanting to know how to start....where to go...and this is the women. Not the men. And the questions....you would be surprised to maybe find out what your wife is thinking...or your Mother for that matter.
I wil leave this to sit right now. To see how it goes. To format my views in my head.
To see how the jelly beans fall across the kitchen floor this time.